For the past two weekends, I've had a lot of celebrations. First, it was both my host dedo's and host brother's slava (both named Lazar) on April 8th. I was in Skopje the previous day for Peace Corps activities, and arrived home around noon. Around 1pm, guests started arriving, so the rakija, bottles of Krali Marko (King Marko) beer, and seemingly unlimited supply of snacks and desserts arrived with them. At one point there were at least 30 people in the house, maybe more, since the room I was in had about 14.
Yep, we had an indoor oro going on in the house.
It wasn't long before my host brother Laze broke out his accordion and started playing Macedonian folk songs. Given that he's at music school in Austria for the accordion, he's pretty good, and he was joined in by some friends playing the trumpet, eventually leading to a small oro dance circle in the room. By the time things started wrapping up, it was 11:30 and I was exhausted. But it was a lot of fun. It was probably the first time since I arrived here that I've had a chance to hang out with a large group of only Macedonians close to my age, and I made some new friends I'll keep in touch with.
After a holiday-shortened week, I spent the past weekend with my host family and friends celebrating Orthodox Easter. I have to admit I missed out on some of the traditions this year, because at midnight on Easter Sunday, most people go to the main church in town, and do a bunch of things like light candles, circle the church a few times, and crack eggs with friends and strangers. Hardboiled eggs, yes. I missed this particular tradition because I was at packed bar in Kocani and none of my Macedonian friends really wanted to go to the church, and we all saw it as an opportunity to find an open table when everyone left briefly to go to the church. Priorities. I'll just go next year. Regardless, I still did get exposed to a new tradition that night: everyone stays out really late the night before Easter. But it was fun, met several new people, and went home happy after devouring a greasy banichka with урда (a type of cheese) at 3am.
The next morning, I thankfully avoided hearing the screams of the pig that was being slaughtered for our big Easter meal (thank you earplugs), woke up around 11 and walked outside to see people already outside eating and drinking rakija. Here was some of the scene:
Pig.
My host mom Silvana dishing out some egg salad.
Things were pretty relaxed, just sipping rakija and snacking, until we heard music in the distance. At first we thought it was a wedding, but soon we had a band in our backyard with us playing folk music:
The band. We thanked them with lots of rakija and Krali Marko.
Eventually the band left after about 25 minutes, but again, another spontaneously awesome experience. It was hard to top that for the rest of the day, but we did have a pretty epic feast for lunch. That was Easter.
But the holiday weekend wasn't over yet. The next day was also a state holiday, so no one at home had to work, so we (Silvana, Venco, Lazar, dedo, and me) went to Osogovo mountain for a picnic. We lucked out with weather, and after arriving at the мегдан (basically an open field where lots of people park their cars and set up their grills for picnic), several of us embarked on a short hike down the hill to my dedo's old village of Vraninci. It was another highlight of my time here in Macedonia:
Dedo's village of Vraninci, viewed from the мегдан.
Dedo's house.
This was dedo's old room.
My dedo planted this tree about 60 years ago.
It's hard to describe the experience of seeing this village (we even went na gosti briefly to one of the few remaining occupied houses), but it gave me a lot of new perspective about how dedo grew up and the type of life he lived. We even picked up some items that probably belong in some kind of museum, like a 200 year old bowl for scooping flour. Eventually we made our way back to the мегдан and commenced the picnic:
The мегдан.
Another obligatory oro circle...
After making some rounds around the field, talking to family friends and drinking a little rakija, we settled down to our skara and, of course, drank a little more rakija. My host dad Venco and brother Lazar got out their accordions after a little while and naturally an oro circle formed around them. While watching this typical Macedonian tradition, I was sitting with dedo and remarked to me: "Сиромашни луѓе, но богати души." Poor people, but rich souls. After seeing his village and where he is now, along with the other experiences I've had in Macedonia over the last 7 months, I have no reason to disagree with him. Dedo knows best after all.